And if so, it's possible that the approach I've taken to grasp one, might help the other.
Perhaps it's best to start with some definitions though.
Let me start by saying, I've always felt badly for folks who have interpreted "god's will" as a one-way street of destiny, meritocracy, or punishment/reward.
This sympathy began many years ago when my first stepfather was alive and living with HIV and then AIDS.
It was the early 90's then, and it was not uncommon for me to hear from people who still held homophobic views that the reason my stepfather had contracted HIV was because he had "sinned against God" (definitely a capital "G"), and this fatal disease was his "punishment" for "choosing the gay lifestyle."
As a teenager at the time, I had no theology of my own to speak of, but it did not stop me from feeling deep sadness for these individuals who held such a deterministic, hateful and vindictive view of a power greater than themselves.
I would think to myself: "How on earth do you sleep at night? You must be terrified all the time."
Now that I'm older and have spent many years crafting and listening for my own theology, I still feel great sadness for individuals who believe that when something awful happens, it is because of some personal failure.
What's interesting too, is now, over twenty years later, I hear some of those same people calling this same worldview "karma" instead of "God" (with a capital "G"), though I believe it is just an elephant of a different color.
I do not share this worldview.
When I use the phrase "god's will" I am referring to the laws of the universe. And by "universe," I mean that quite literally.
The universe that is made up of an estimated 100 billion galaxies, of which only one is called the Milky Way (where we live) that may contain up 100 billion of it's own individual solar systems including ours.
(This is where you stand back and say: "Whoa...")
Here's the funny thing though, and I say this as humbly as I possibly can, the universe also (miraculously) includes you and me, which means the laws of the universe are not deterministic, they are transactional. God's will is transactional.
Which leads me to radical acceptance.
To me, radical acceptance is a profound and purposeful alignment with reality.
Whereas god's will might be a noun, radical acceptance may be more of a verb. It also may be the most sane response to god's will, or to the laws of the universe.
Contemplative practices like prayer and meditation are methods for practicing and perfecting this type of harmonious, and dynamic, encounter with bare reality or god.
Of this topic, much has been said and written for millennia.
Just for an example, the 14th century Christian mystic, Julian of Norwich wrote in her book Revelations of Divine Love:
Prayer is a new, gracious, lasting will of the soul united and fast-bound to the will of God.
And to fast forward to a much more modern text, How to Be an Adult in Faith and Spirituality (2011), the author David Richo ends the book with this question at the start of the Epilogue:
What question was the universe yearning to have answered when it created me?
Though not a Buddhist myself, on this topic of radical acceptance and god's will, I have always been drawn to the Buddhist idea of "faith."
In her article entitled: "Faith: Its Role and Meaning in a Buddhist Wisdom Tradition" posted on the Barre Center for Buddhist Studies website, Western author and Buddhist teacher Sharon Salzberg wrote this about faith:
The word we normally translate as faith from the Pali language, the language of the original Buddhist texts, is saddha, which literally means 'to place the heart upon.' Saddha means to give our hearts over to, or place our hearts upon something.
When I think about the aspiration I have to align with reality in such a way that it feels effortless and compassionate, the phrase "to place the heart upon" suggests the tenderness and the intentionality that goes along with this level of radical acceptance.
On a very personal note, for some time now I have been periodically using the phrases "your will" or "what is your will" in my sitting meditation as an anchor to the practice. And the other day, as I sat, these words came to my mind: "I'm here...It could not have been any other way."
I can't tell you exactly why, but I experienced those words as extraordinarily true- bring tears-to-my-eyes true. It felt like a release and a relief.
At times I've thought of contemplative practices like radical acceptance as the method and the mystical experience of divine union with god or god's will as the meaning, and perhaps this is how these two concepts co-exist interdependently for me.
Going forward, my hope is to continue to seek a truth that brings peace and healing to myself as an individual, and in turn, to the world as a whole.
Perhaps you may have the same aspiration too.
May it be so.
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